Tuesday, 2 July 2013

Ex's - Can You be Friends on Social Media?

I was reading a blog the other day about how no one, and I mean NO ONE, should be friends with their ex’s on any form of social media (and you know what, I can’t find the link to reference it, but go to google and you’ll find plenty of stories!).  Apparently it is bad for your self-esteem, well-being and overall health.   I’ve got to agree.  I’ve been cyber friends with one or two former boyfriends over the years and after a while you just wonder why the heck you’re bothering.  It wasn’t going anywhere, or obviously they wouldn’t have been an ex – so why want an insight into their life today?
 
Anyway, I just thought I'd pose the question - it's an interesting conundrum.. 
 
Mean while I will leave you with a quote, not sure who by, probably an anonymous who couldn't let go of their ex on a social media platform...  But anyway....
 

Do you agree or disagree?
 

2 comments:

  1. Good question... admittedly I am still friends with a "few" ex's on my facebook page, 1 because we share a son (& if he (the ex) bugs me, I can rip him to sheds there... done on the phone, he hangs up on me. As for the others... still possible to move on & be friends.

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  2. It is a good question and from my perspective the answer is no, why would you want to know what is going on in their life; it ended for a reason? I like the quote - maybe there is some truth in it.

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